She is wildly successful, stunning, and lights up every room. But beneath the achievements lives an eight-year-old girl who learned that love must be earned through performance. So many of us carry this invisible wound. We build beautiful lives and bank accounts, yet accept breadcrumbs in our relationships because the chaos feels like home. Discover how childhood trauma drives our romantic choices, and why it is finally time to tell that exhausted little girl she can stop per

Forget the green beer. On Day 76 of my journey, I’m looking at the true meaning of St Patrick's Day through the lens of resilience and somatic healing. From my father-in-law’s green suit to the "kidnapped" seasons of our lives, this post explores how to drive out internal snakes—toxic beliefs and demeaning treatment—to reclaim your worth. Whether you're in a "green suit" season or a quiet one, discover why the waddle forward is the only luck you actually need. Suit optional.

Perfectionism isn’t about excellence — it’s about safety. A raw, honest reflection on fear of criticism, inner child wounds, and learning to rest the scales.