A friend called and said everything felt like too much — not one big crisis, just all of it at once. So I gave her a rule small enough to actually do when overwhelm hits and you can't find five minutes to breathe. It's called The 30-Second Rule: breathe, hand on heart, you first. No breakthrough required, no fixing your whole life before dinner. Just thirty seconds of asking nothing more of yourself. Save this for the day you need it — and send it to a friend who's carrying t

Today I cried over spilled milk. Literally—almond milk, running down the side of my daughter's stroller in a hotel parking lot. For two minutes, I was convinced the meltdown was about the milk. It wasn't. It was a week and a half of early mornings, long drives, no sleep, and a nervous system waving a white flag while I insisted we could fit in one more thing. The milk was just the last straw. Here's what I'm learning about the exhaustion under the small stuff—and why catching